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If I were a man, I’d start before I was ready. I’d speak boldly, unburdened by the need to always know. I’d demand my worth—not with apology, but with certainty. If I were a man, success would follow my confidence, not my credentials. I’d stride into rooms and claim space with a voice that commands authority. Perfection would not be my prison; good enough would be enough. If I were a man, my presence would preclude doubt. Capable. The best. That’s what they’d call me, no questions asked. My passion wouldn’t be dismissed as emotion—it would be praised as drive. If I were a man, I’d celebrate my triumphs without dimming their light.

As the year ends and holiday lights shine bright, it’s a moment to pause, reflect, and celebrate the progress of women and their growing inclusion in the aerospace industry. Traditionally seen as a male-dominated field, the aerospace industry has undergone significant transformation over the years. This December, we celebrate the remarkable achievements of women who are helping to shape the future of the aerospace industry while continuing to break down barriers and inspire future generations of girls and young women to pursue careers in science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM).

In today’s world, we often hear the phrase: “How do you do it all?” For many women, this question seems loaded with societal expectations that we should have it all together—children, a thriving career, home-cooked meals, a well-coordinated schedule, and endless energy to cheer at every game or practice. It’s an idealized image that society has normalized but is far from the reality that most of us live. And let me remind you: fairytales don’t exist, perfection is unattainable, and no one can do it all alone.